Monday, January 15, 2018

2017 Book Report

Somewhere down the long stretch of I-70, or maybe hidden in one of the tiny towns along Highway 54, I thought I probably 'oughta keep track of all the books I've read (well, listened to) this year. Behold my semi-complete, non-chronological list of 35 books completed in 2017, plus a rating (out of ★), plus a random memory I associate with the book:



How to Fall in Love with Anyone ★★ A six-mile run in Bolivar, stretching in the parking lot of the First Baptist Rec Center where I parked
Rules of Civility ★★★ Being one of the first audiobooks to hear on Bluetooth in my new Toyota RAV4
Tuesdays in 1980 ★★★★★ Waking up early in Destin, Florida to read and sip coffee on the patio overlooking the beach
Girls in the Moon ★★ On the flight back from Destin, Florida being very, veryyyy sunburnt
The Girls ★★ Mowing the yard
Lilac Girls ★★★ Staining the handrail of my new stairwell
Tulip Fever ★★★ Flight to Falmouth, Massachusetts for the Road Race
Small Great Things ★★ Feeling very awkward when my car Bluetooth synced up very loudly and one of the characters was making incredibly racists comments
Dark Places ★★ Driving from Lee's Summit to Bolivar
The Thin Man ★★ Cleaning my house to rent out for a Mizzou game day weekend
The Circle ★★ Driving from Columbia to St. Louis
Midnight at the Bright Ideas Bookstore ★★★ Folding laundry and realizing I ruined a green sweater
The Swans of Fifth Avenue ★★★ Thinking that I really need to read Breakfast at Tiffany's
Spoonbenders ★★★★★ Crunches in the driveway
Into the Water ★★★ Looping around at the two-mile mark on the Bear Creek Trail
Today Will be Different ★★★ Driving from St. Louis to Columbia
Moonglow ★★★★ Mowing the yard
What She Knew ★★★ Getting gas just outside of St. Louis
The Trespasser ★★ Tirelessly attempting to mount my curtain rod at just the right height for my new IKEA curtains
A Man Called Ove ★★★★ Finishing a run of my three-mile-loop-from-home
A Beautiful Blue Death ★★ Driving from Columbia to Harrisonville
Not That Kind of Girl ★★ Painting my main level the most beautifully, neutral color: smoke
Pretty Girls ★★★ Being the last audiobook to hear via aux cable in my Toyota Corolla
Hello, Sunshine ★★ Finishing an audiobook and not having another lined up
Words in Deep Blue ★★★★★ Taking out my pearl earrings after work
The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo ★★★ Wondering if I have anything to pick-up at the dry cleaners I might've forgotten
The Goldfinch ★★★★ Making a cup of tea before bed
The ABC Murders ★★★ Digging up accessories for my Halloween costumes
Fierce Kingdom ★★★★ Driving from St. Louis to Columbia
White Fur ★★★★ Reading in the bath and obsessing over the weirdness of these characters
Fates & Furies ★★★★ Painting the afore mentioned new stairwell
Murder on the Orient Express ★★★★ Thinking about what to wear to the JES Holiday Party
Saints for All Occasions ★★★ Raking the yard
The Couple Next Door ★★ Making this totally underwhelming lemon chicken recipe
Wutherington Heights ★★ Driving home for Christmas

Wednesday, January 10, 2018

2017 A Year in Instagrams





02.18.2017    Rootin' Tootin' Chili Cook-Off
Ok, ok. We only placed 2nd in “Biggest Bowl” (largest donation) this year, but we had an awesome time, as always. The theme was 50s High School and our pop-a-shot basketball goal was a huge hit!










02.12.2017    Oscarfest (or the aftermath at least)
This is just a random family photo taken at our favorite (Texas Roadhouse) after our annual Oscarfest. But it’s cute–and I love these people.










02.25.2017    Mardi Gras in Soulard
Aaron and I are still separated by about 130 miles of Highway 70. Every now and then, I visit him in St. Louis and do fun things, i.e. Mardi Gras.





03.30.2017    GAHC Conference
The best excuse to visit Savannah is for a 24-hour work trip where your main job is to run a tradeshow booth for two hours like a boss. So, that’s what I did.









05.13.2017    Becca's College Graduation
Becca graduated college in May! Congratulations, you beautiful girl.









05.14.2017
    Mother's Day
Throwback for Mother’s Day. I’ve been enjoying so many weekends at home with mom ... or with her in Columbia with me. Let’s just say: I am up on all the best shows and movies (of course).




05.28.2017
    #Showme New Orleans
We revived the #showme Memorial Weekend this year with a trip to the Big Easy: beignets were had, swamps were paddled, hurricanes were consumed.



06.03.2017
    The Smith Wedding
Congratulations to my sweet Emilie *Smith,* who made the most beautiful bride this summer.





06.01.2017    Universal Studios
Family throwback to Universal Studios was amazing! We had so much fun, not just enjoying the theme park, but recollecting about our past Universal adventures. The Terminator ride is exactly the same as it was in 1999. No question.






07.04.2017    4th of July
The 4th of July was patriotic as ever. Stars, stripes the whole nine yards





07.20.2017    Falmouth Road Race
Once you’ve run a marathon you never stop talking about it, but also, you get roped into an awful lot of races. This one being an amazing, east-coast, beach-side, 7-mile sweat-fest in Falmouth, Massachusetts.




08.21-to-27.2015    Beach Vacation
The best reward after race training is a couples beach vacation. Many books were read and greyhounds consumed.







08.21-to-27.2015    Beach Vacation Continued...
And also fish were caught. That’s what this picture is about.






9.??.2017    Downtown St. Louis
Aaron lives in Downtown St. Louis, which doesn’t have much going for it...except roof access.




09.09.2017
    The LeComte Wedding
In September, we crossed the country to San Diego, California for the wedding of some of Aaron’s SafeTrek co-workers and friends. I tell you what, that place has incredible sunsets...



10.21.2017    Mizzou Homecoming Reunion
Life in Columbia isn’t complete without Mizzou Tailgates. The “fab four” were reunited in our origin-city at the famous Griswold tailgate (thank you again for having us)!





10.08.2017    Dallas Girl's Weekend
For mom’s birthday, we visited her sister and my sister in Dallas, Texas for a Girl’s Weekend. We toured Becca’s new ‘hood, ate amazing food and fiiiinally caught up on “The Good Place.”







10.31.2017    Halloween at Work
The Marketing Halloween costume this year was inspired by our daily life as we design and coordinate with our respective software. The Creative Team dressed as Adobe InDesign, Photoshop and Illustrate, while our Strategic other-half were styled after Microsoft Outlook, Word and Excel. I believe kids these days would define this as #extra.



11.12.2017    Friendsgiving
Our annual Friendsgiving is getting bigger every year! This year we added a couple of couples and, therefore, some new delicious side dishes!

   





12.07.2017    JES Holiday Party
The JES Holiday Party was shenanigans as usual: ridiculous videos, dancing and an open bar, what else would you expect?





12.30.2017    My 27th Birthday
For my birthday this year, Aaron and I took a “staycation” in the Central West End. It was fun pretending to be locals in the area and eating at all new restaurants (which is like my third passion in life).



12.24.2015    Christmas Eve
Becca and I hadn't been home in a while, so returning for Christmas was well anticipated! We spent Christmas eve comfortably in our matching pajamas and celebrated the next day and Grandma and Grandpa's house. 





12.30.2015    Kait's Quarter Century Challenge
HAPPY QUARTER CENTURY BIRTHDAY TO MEEEEEE! I took a queue from my mother's 50th birthday and decided to throw myself a 25th party just as epic: Kait Trivia, red-headed slut shots, homemade sushi with ginger, gingerbread Kaits and plenty of being bossed around. I actually made everyone call me Queen Kait and wore a tiara all night. I'm not embarrassed, it was a blast.

 

Thursday, January 4, 2018

2018 New Year Resolutions



If there is one thing I always manage to post...it's a New Year's Resolution post. Here's what I'm thinking for 2018:

  1. Be Kind
  2. Appreciate my Youth
  3. Read 50 Books
  4. Save $10,000
  5. Cultivate 2 New Skills
  6. Become a Better Leader
  7. Workout 4 Days a Week

Be Kind
Having been on the receiving end of such thoughtful, genuine kindness, it is important to me that a reflection of that kindness be a priority in my life. Over the last year, I have tried to be more aware of kindness. I started a tally in at the office where I marked each consecutive day of "kindness." However, my team quickly made it known that I was actually just marking consecutive days of "not meanness," which apparently, isn't the same thing. So, I'll need to find some new strategies for this goal, but it's back on the line-up for 2018.

Appreciate my Youth
All my friends are married and having babies, and I'm over here like...well, I'm like trying to appreciate all the things I won't be able to do when I climb into that boat with them. Among other things, I just want to appreciate where I am in my life right now. 
  • Travel New Places
  • Move to a New City
  • Try Weird Fashions
  • Care for my Skin
  • Stay up, Sleep in
  • Play Drinking Games
  • Have Hangovers
  • Go to Festivals
  • Use Stupid Slang 
  • Make New Friends
  • Eat Whatever
  • Karaoke
  • Ignore my Phone 
  • Play Intramural Sports  

Read 50 Books
And to clear, I'm counting audiobooks.

Save $10,000
I am actually terribly good at accidentally saving money. So, I hope a purposeful, budgeted goal of 0 $10,000 will not be too difficult.

Cultivate 2 New Skills
We should always be discovering, cultivating and utilizing new skills. I thought I might brainstorm a little list of skills I might try...
  • Swimming
  • Drive Stick Shift
  • Photography
  • Biking
  • Embroidery
  • Bartending
  • Ballroom Dancing
  • Programming
  • Speed Reading
  • Sewing
  • Learn a Language

Become a Better Leader
Now that I am one, I suppose I should get better at it. There is a training program at JES for "Leaders of Others" that has, so far, provided some really helpful insight about myself and how that might affect my relationships with my team. I think being mindful and focused on the importance if improved leadership will be invaluable to its success. 

Workout 4 Days a Week
I haven't worked out since October 26 *shameful, eyes covered monkey emoji* and it's pathetic. Anyway, I've got to get moving and I don't want to rush into it, so we'll start with a simple count of 4 days a week and take it from there. It's damn cold though, and I hate treadmills...

Monday, May 16, 2016

How to Party Plan Like a Pro // If You Feed Them, They Will Come

I just love random, little holidays...such as Cinco de Mayo! It is actually surprisingly difficult to decorate for without buying a million aztecy/southwesterny printed things. But I found a couple of bright and colorful Cinco de Mayo weddings and that game me a little inspiration.



So, the central goal of this party was to feed people. Being that there was a large group...and it needed to be Mexican food of some sort, I opted to make "carnitas" and give people the option to do nachos or tacos. My friend Blair (co-worker, marathon runner, expert dinner-maker) had made this delectable spicy shredded pork for me before, so I knew that's what I had to do. Unfortunately, mine didn't turn out as good. Her's was soooo flavorful and mine was like, eh. So, my recommendation for this recipe is to go crazy on the rub - you can't have too much.  



Then I set up all kinds of toppings: cilantro, sour cream, queso fresco, jalapenos, limes and salas, as well as some queso dip going on in the mini crockpot. People said nice things about it, but like I said...I was disappointed with the pork.



 And in the other ring! I had my Uncle Steve's famous margaritas going on. They were hit and super easy to make and manage. Along with the blending station were limes, sweet/sour salt and little lime drink markers I doodles and printed.

Uncle Steve's Marg Mix

Ingredients:

  • 1 can - frozen lime concentrate
  • 3/4 can - tequila
  • 1/4 can - triple sec
  • 1 Tbsp - powdered sugar
  • Lots of ice  

 Directions for Marg Mix:

  1. Empty one can of frozen lime concentrate into a blender.
  2. Fill the same can from the concentrate 3/4 with tequila and add to blender.
  3. Fill the same can from the concentrate 1/4 with tripel sec and add to blender.
  4. Add 1 Tbsp powdered sugar and blend.
  5. **This can be made prior to and refrigerated until needed for marg making.
Directions for Margs:
  1. Fill the blender or Magic Bullet container 1/4 way with marg mix.
  2. Fill the rest of the container with ice.
  3. Blend and enjoy.




To better incorporate my wall gallery into the shenanigans, I doodled and printed little word bubbles of Cinco de Mayo puns...



I did a ton of prep work for this party (I basically only host parties to force myself to do the really deep house cleaning), but for once I was totally ready before the start time. So, I could actually enjoy a little quality marg time on the patio before any guests arrived.

Oh! And the invites! I doodles those too, so that's kind of fun...


Thursday, May 12, 2016

How Does Your Garden Grow?

Perhaps you recall the last time I made you read about my gardening endeavors? The grass was all patchy, nothing was growing, I was holding a hand cultivator* like a weapon? Anyway...spring came along with rain and warmer weather, and it's made QUITE an improvement!


Obviously, I have plans to plant something here...just not quite sure what yet. I'm hoping I can split off a little of something I already have, but we'll see. 


Look how much better the grass looks! Still a bit patchy, but it's a pretty shady spot...so I'm trying to be patient. 


I'm thinking once I lay mulch we can hide that gutter drain a bit better.  


Look at those little purple guys!



And the peony bush is about to take off...come on, little peony! You can do it!


Last year, these azaleas didn't even pretend like they were gonna bloom. Now look at them - peaking out bright and early to see what the spring's all about.

That's all I wanted to say really. Next steps are to fill in with more plants and mulch the place! It will look nice and neat once I've got the mulch in, but I'm trying to take this whole thing very slow and right now there's so much weed-plucking that I don't have the patience to put deal with mulch quite yet. Any garden wisdom? Advice for a novice? Mistakes I'm making?

*I had to look it up, but yeah...that's what it's called.

Tuesday, May 10, 2016

Memphis "Momsoon"

We usually brainstorm a family event hashtag prior to our leaving, but it wasn't until we were in the car with our first Instagram post primed and ready that we realized we didn't one! A little discussion was had and it was actually dad who came up with the clever pun of "Memphis Momsoon;" a play on the purpose of the trip (to celebrate mom a bit early for Mother's Day) and a tribute to the gloomy weather predicted during our stay (rain, rain and so much more rain). However, it was quickly brought to our attention that when combined and lower-capitalized in the standard hashtag formatting, the message might imply we would be having a Memphis Mom Soon! Not the case...to clarify.

We left Bolivar early Friday morning and, although it was pretty rainy, enjoyed the beautifully green, winding road to Memphis. I had been anticipating this trip for quite some time as I love Instagram captions that are lyrics and "Walking in Memphis," Marc Cohen is just TOO EASY. There had to be one silver lining to all this anticipated rain...and it was the first use of a "Walking in Memphis" lyric:

"Touched down in the land of the Delta Blues, in the middle of the pouring rain."

Upon hungrily arriving in Memphis, we voted to eat at this burger joint called Huey's in Midtown. The burgers were phenomenal, we all took one look at the long list of burger options and had our hearts set on what would ultimately be a uniquely great burger: Sunshine Burger (Mom and Bex), West Coast Burger (Dad), xxx Burger (Sam) and Bluff City Burger (Kait, pictured below).



So, the rain put a bit of a damper on our plans. Initially we had planned to eat at Dixon Gallery & Garden where food trucks would be gathered. Instead we lucked out on Huey's, grabbed a picture at a mural nearby and checked into the hotel for a quick snooze.



The nap was actually very necessary because the evening plans were to attend the Beale Street Music Festival. Another happy accident, because when we planned this shindig, we had no idea this was going on. It wasn't until a co-worker mentioned it was the same weekend that we even realized why it had been so dang hard to find a hotel. The festival wasn't actually on Beale Street, it was at a little park along the river - which was better. We saw Gin Blossoms / Trampled by Turtles (my favorite), Grace Potter / Panic at the Disco and Neil Young / Weezer. We had a great time and although it didn't actually rain while we were there, the early storms and high foot traffic made the park a dreadfully muddy mess.

Saturday morning, we woke up and ventured to a quirky little coffee place called Otherlands Coffee Bar. It was a good wake-me-up before our tour of Sun Studios. It was a cool experience, but definitely a one-time deal. The building is a snug little space with an upstairs room of memorabilia and a downstairs recording studio. Our tour guide was great, and it was fun to hear stories about some of the artists who recorded there. We even got to sing from the same spot and microphone where Elvis, Johnny Cash, BB King, Roy Orbison, Jerry Lee Lewis, Tom Petty, Paul Simon and countless others had sang.



After the tour, we made our way to Gus's World Famous Fried Chicken...where the "line" consisted of about thirty people waiting around outside. Yikes. We put our name in and were told it would be about an hour wait. Luckily the restaurant was in a very walkable area, so we wandered around and took pictures before returning for a beer while we waited.



The chicken was delicious - maybe because we had never been hungrier in our lives? Or maybe because the spicy breading was just too good? Either way, we annihilated our food when it arrived.

After lunch, we popped into the Peabody Hotel to see the ducks. It was cute, but more suited to children than for our group. What was suited for our group was where we went next: Beale Street. Very cool vibe, as I'm sure you can image (or know). Being able to take your drinks into the street and between bars really just creates a whole new kind of atmosphere. Here, I claimed my second Instagram with a caption from "Walking in Memphis"...

"With my feet ten feet off of Beale."

We settled in at a place called Silky O'Sullivan's because, surprisingly, it was a BEAUTIFUL day and there's was the most clearly visible patio. Also, they let Sam (18-year-old) in until 8:00 p.m. It was the BEST. There was a live band who played fun covers and we ordered beer after local beer (Memphis Made Fireside, delightful). I think we were blinded by our happiness there in the Silky sunshine because we completely forgot to eat until it was too late! So, for dinner we popped next door to the closest BBQ we could find, Pig on Beale. It was pretty good - they had an interesting seasoning that wasn't really a rub, so much as add after the smoking process. We visited another bar after dinner before deciding we were tired and headed back to the hotel.

Sunday morning we toured the National Civil Rights Museum, which is built into the hotel where Rev. Martin Luther King, Jr. was shot. It was a very emotional museum experience, as you walked through the history of slavery in the United States. Definitely one of the better history museums I've been to.



Our final stop in Memphis was for brunch at the Arcade Restaurant - no Sam, there aren't any arcade games there. It was a classic, all-American breakfast and, damn, it was good. The menu was extremely limited (only seven or so items), but everything was reasonably priced and came with a side of biscuits and gravy, so no one complained. Then we loaded up and were back on the winding road home again. It was such a fun trip and I anticipate going back again! On the next trip, I want to be sure to...

1. Spend more time on Beale Street
2. Try a couple different BBQ joints
3. Tour Graceland
4. Wear my blue suede shoes

Until next time, see ya Memphis!